It’s time to grow up and start acting like a professional.
I spent last week sending out random love notes and books to clients, prospects and people I like. Even ‘wrote’ up a proposal for a new business owner prospect (by hand, in sharpie, on scratch paper I found in my office). Then spent the weekend playing in the snow. Sure I’m having a ton of fun, but if I want this venture to succeed I need to start getting serious, need to start acting like a professional.
Where does this fear come from?
That I need to show up as expected. That the people I want to work with are looking for a certain level of professionalism and if I don’t play at that level I’ll be finding myself short on clients.
Is it true?
Yes! and no. To call myself a professional in my field, to be respected and, more importantly, hired I need to deliver. What exactly that needs to look like, is a little more vague.
What could be just as true and would serve me?
My job. My ONE and ONLY job when working with somebody new is to do whatever it takes to knock them out of the circle, the round and round approach to life and business that has them stuck. To shift them out of whatever the mindset is that keeps them from reaching their goals. If that means hand writing letters, sending books over and over, calling them out point blank on their bullshit, crying with them, dreaming with them, then that is exactly what I need to do. Because that is what serves them and that is what they will pay me for.